Relationship Counselling

I really enjoy working with couples and I see the whole process as very personal and really lovely that you would trust me to join you in the conversations we would have. When you start to look for a therapist or counsellor to work with you in your relationship it is important that you find the right fit. You both need to be wanting to engage in therapy. You both need to feel comfortable with the therapist. Obviously they need to be a suitably qualified and registered counsellor with one of the governing bodies, either PACFA or ACA. Together you will set some goals or talk about why you want to work on your relationship and what you are working towards. Then it should be about letting the therapist in a little, letting them understand your relationship and who you each are in the relationship. This part can be tricky because you both need to feel heard and validated. I believe that neither person is my client in relationship work. The relationship and what is best for the relationship is my client and my goal.